We've probably said that a time or two about a spouse, family member, or friend. The problem is not that people don't communicate it's that they communicate poorly. Ans usually it is both parties that are at fault here.
Not saying something is just as influential as saying something. Let's remember that silent treatment is a form of communication. If it weren't we wouldn't do it.
A good rule for communicating with others is DON'T ASSUME. When we assume that we now what the other person is thinking, or even what they are saying we can get in serious trouble. Don't be afraid to clarify and to ask for clarification.
You can avoid a lot of contention and confusion if you seek to gain understanding instead of seeking to make a stance and win.
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